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**Last Updated 25.01.2012**

Hi, my name is Mina and welcome to my world. OK, maybe just a piece of my world, but probably the part you are most interested in. I’m a woman in my 30s, short, curvaceous and spunky. My husband, Sylvanus and I have been married since 2009. We don’t have a “conventional” marriage. We have an open marriage. 

Our sex life together has included threesomes with other women, other men and foursomes with couples. We have also enjoyed the sexual company of others on our own. I identify most with being bisexual and I am capable of being polyamorous. 

Though I have encountered quite a few two females and one male sexual encounters with my husband, I have only experienced the joys of having two men in my bed once. We have had fun with just a few couples in our past. Right now, I have only experienced the intimate and private company of two men since meeting Sylvanus. 

I’d like to enjoy being in the company of other men more. Unfortunately, I seem to be quite the little snob. My cunt likes what she likes and is absolutely attached to what stimulates my mind. So few are capable of doing such things. I find mentally, I am attracted to “older” men. Sorry younger men, though you may be stunning to look at, often I lose interest when you speak to me. Or more importantly, when you write to me. But, I have found a few gems who have broken this mold. 

I’m trying to loosen up and focus on the here and now and not worry about the future. My last encounter with another man turned into a wonderful poly relationship with he as my Master and secondary partner. Unfortunately, that came tumbling down when he realized he simply did not have the time for me in his life. So, for now, I’m not going to focus on having a “relationship” with anyone, but please realize this does not mean I want to just run around and have crazy sex with just anyone. No, it does not. It just means I would like to find some nice men that I can have rich and fulfilling encounters with on more than one occasion (assuming our first time together goes well), without the “drama” of having to label a “relationship”. 

What turns me on? What am I attracted to, you ask? 

I’m not looking for a man that wants to make love to me for hours and snuggle with me and treat me like a princess. I have this. I have this in my husband. Perhaps I am not seeing the whole open marriage possibilities on how wonderful it would be to have more than one man in love with me, making love to me for hours and treating me like a princess, but that’s just how I am. For me, being able to open myself up to other lovers, means being able to experience new and different things. Now, don’t get me wrong, I love snuggles and cuddles and gentle love making for hours, but I crave more than just that. 

I love a man with self confidence. I adore men open and comfortable in their sexualities. I love sexually aggressive men. Men who are not afraid to talk dirty to me, whisper filthy things in my ear or even call me his dirty little slut. I love being used for his pleasure. It’s a huge turn on for me to just be used like a fuck toy. There’s nothing more primal than being forced on my hands and knees and have fingers digging into my flesh while a hard erection claims my body as his own. There’s nothing like that feeling of not seeing what’s behind me, but submitting to the pounding of a possessive cock. 

Also, there’s nothing hotter than being physically bound for his pleasure. Pulling against restraints as he has his way with my body. 

And then to have that same primal hunger turned into gentle touches of admiration and care. 

To the women out there who may desire me. Yes, I am bisexual. It is very difficult however, to write about what it is I seek in a female lover, as I am yet to truly have one. Let me explain. Yes, I have been with women and all in a threesome or foursome setting. It is for this reason I say that I have never truly had a female lover. I think there is a difference between interacting with another woman for the sake of a threesome or moresome and being truly attracted to a woman and having some private and intimate moments. This, I have not had. I have not had the pleasure of meeting a woman who struck my fancy both mentally and physically and then gone to bed with her for hours of pleasure. I do not know what I seek in a female lover other than basic mutual attraction. Her age, does not matter to me at this point in time. All that matters is a basic physical and mental attraction and connection. She need not be skilled in the art of making love to another woman. I think there could be a lot of fun had between us if we were both venturing into new territories together. However, if she is experienced, there is much she can teach me. I am quite comfortable with voicing what does and does not arouse me and hope that she is too. I want to know what it would be like to fall deeply in “like” with another woman and take her to bed. At this point, I imagine us both as equal lovers. I don’t desire a women to dominate me in the bedroom and I do not wish to dominate her, of course, this can be left open for future encounters, but since this is all new territory, I simply want to know what it is like to have a female lover. To kiss her, caress her, brush her hair, feel her breasts in my hands, suck and lick her nipples, would all be pure heaven. I want to know what it is like to run my hands between her thighs, spreading them, letting my tongue caress the hard bud of pleasure until I make her orgasm just for me. I want to know what it would feel like to sink my fingers inside her. And on the chance that I want to take her, I want to know what it would be like to put her on her hands and knees, face into the mattress, while my hands spread her ass cheeks and I devour her from behind. What would it be like to take possession of her while wearing a faux cock? These are questions I hope to have answered one day… 

If you haven’t been able to tell, I identify with being a submissive. Yes, my blood boils for BDSM. I am a masochist and do derive pleasure from pain. I adore receiving marks on my body, the kind that last for days so I can look at them in admiration in the mirror and have that reminder of things that happened not long ago. Chances are, if you are an experienced and intelligent Dominant, you may very well get my attention. Of course, it is left to see if we “click”. 

My arousal depends on those around me. I am not the sort of woman who walks around every waking hour with a throbbing clit and aching desire to fuck. No, I need stimulation. You want me to be your horny little slut? Then do your part and make me that way. Use your words, your look and your touch to put me into that state. *chuckles* Are you up for the challenge? Because a challenge, it will be. 

What gets my attention? Write me. Put everything you have into it. Cut yourself and bleed out the honest truth of your lust and desire. Make it so I can’t stop reading and ache for more. Make it so that every word sends my body humming. Make me wait in throbbing anticipation just so my eyes can devour the feast of your words. That’s what gets me. That’s what makes my heart flutter, blood pulse and clit throb. 

Fuck my mind and you shall have my body. … 

xo mina 

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Info: 

Email me at mydesireblog at gmail.com

Find me on twitter as mydesire

Find me on Fetlife as Mina

Want to really “know” me: 

Read me on At Longings End, a blog shared with Sylvanus about our real life open marriage.

Read me on Secret Desire, my erotica blog dedicated to writing out all my fantasies and fetishes.

Visit what stimulates me visually at Mina’s Musings.

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